Tapping on Pets: Healing Relationships
I receive such amazing questions from students of my EFT courses and I wanted to share this one with you this week.
The question is, how do I tap on healing a relationship between two animals (in this case dogs) that has to be kept separate.
Tap on yourself first
First do tapping on yourself on the issue. Just as you want to heal their relationship, you need to work on your expectations, frustration and any negative feelings surrounding the situation.
EFT for Pets
Now you can move on to your dogs' relationship.
Tap on each pet first
There are many ways to approach this. I would suggest tapping on or for each animal (in this case dog) individually. This is important as the issue for each animal may be different. The shifts in energy may occur in different intensity and speeds. The energy blocks might be different too. From an experiential point of view, their personalities are likely to be different and so they will have different likes and dislikes. They will also have differing ways they experience their environment as well as trauma's they may hold on to from an event you may be unaware of.
You can tap on your pet directly. However, it is often preferred to tap By Proxy or use Distant Tapping depending on elements like how well you know the animal and their temperament. (These techniques form part of FurTapTM - EFT for Pets.
In your tapping rounds and script, focus on the behaviors you have noticed for each of them and what you may have observed their problems are with each other or other animals in general.
Tapping on the relationship collectively
So you have worked on your own feelings regarding this issue, then you worked on each pet individually. Now move on to the collective and the relationship between them.
So you will do a setup phrase for example:
Now move on to your tapping sequence. On each point make a statement about things you have noticed about their relationship and how they act when together. You can even add how it makes you feel and how you want things to be instead. Keep in natural and authentic to resemble the way you speak with your animals and the way your animals behave in their environment.
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Tap on yourself first
First do tapping on yourself on the issue. Just as you want to heal their relationship, you need to work on your expectations, frustration and any negative feelings surrounding the situation.
EFT for Pets
Now you can move on to your dogs' relationship.
Tap on each pet first
There are many ways to approach this. I would suggest tapping on or for each animal (in this case dog) individually. This is important as the issue for each animal may be different. The shifts in energy may occur in different intensity and speeds. The energy blocks might be different too. From an experiential point of view, their personalities are likely to be different and so they will have different likes and dislikes. They will also have differing ways they experience their environment as well as trauma's they may hold on to from an event you may be unaware of.
You can tap on your pet directly. However, it is often preferred to tap By Proxy or use Distant Tapping depending on elements like how well you know the animal and their temperament. (These techniques form part of FurTapTM - EFT for Pets.
In your tapping rounds and script, focus on the behaviors you have noticed for each of them and what you may have observed their problems are with each other or other animals in general.
Tapping on the relationship collectively
So you have worked on your own feelings regarding this issue, then you worked on each pet individually. Now move on to the collective and the relationship between them.
So you will do a setup phrase for example:
Even though you don't like being together, you are loving kind doggys;
Even though there is something going on between you two that I don't understand, you are accepted anyway;
Even though you like to be apart, you are good dogs.
Now move on to your tapping sequence. On each point make a statement about things you have noticed about their relationship and how they act when together. You can even add how it makes you feel and how you want things to be instead. Keep in natural and authentic to resemble the way you speak with your animals and the way your animals behave in their environment.
For example: Tap on the TOH point and say: you don't want to be together;
You can state something specifically about each animal for example:
Tap on EB point and say: 'Sam you get so cross with Milo';
Tap on SE point and say: 'Milo doesn't like being growled at'.
Tap on UE point and say: 'What is it that you dislike so much about the other?'
Tap on UN point and say: 'Is this about a power struggle?'
Tap on Ch point and say: 'Are you jealous of each other or of the attention I give each of you?'
Tap on CB point and say: 'I would love for you to love each other like I love you';
Tap on UA point and say: 'What can we do to co-exist lovingly?'
And so on...concentrate on specifics of their particular experience.
In order to create harmony you will first need to tap out the elements that cause the problem. Please be patient here. You may not see improvement the first time and only by the second or tenth time. One might improve faster than the other. It just depends how deep the issue goes or where the issues stem from.
Want to learn how to use EFT on yourself for free? Go to The Well-Being Institute or check out my courses on Udemy.com.
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